There is a likelihood that two opposite sex may have a
strong feeling for each other when they are close. The degree of the feeling
may vary between them. The partner with the strongest feeling may be troubled
as to why his partner hasn't proposed to her. One of the questions on her mind
may be “why has he not proposed to me, though, I perceive he loves me?”. This
question may persist until there is an answer.
I will be focusing on ladies in this article because a
question like this is common among them.
Read: What is love
It is important that you must know that there are certain
levels where closeness can lead to a strong emotional feeling. The feeling
should not be mistaken for love. You should be able to separate feeling from
love for you to ascertain that he loves you. He should be willing and ready to
propose to you if he truly wants to go into a relationship with you. If you are
really sure he loves you, read further to understand some of the things that
may refrain him from proposing to you.
Moreover, you must create the right atmosphere for him to
freely express himself.
I will try to discuss some of the restraints:
Attitude
Hope your attitude has not refrained him from expressing his
mind? Maybe there are certain behaviors of yours, he is not yet satisfied with,
and he is waiting for the time you will change. Although, love is not easily
angered it keeps no record of wrongs. But going into a relationship with a
person with such attitude may be like going to hell. Check your attitude if it
is not the stumbling block on his way.
Lifestyle
The way you live may not be okay with him. Guys may be
careful of ladies that live an expensive lifestyle. Ladies' expensive lifestyle
scares men away from ladies they could have married. In addition, you like
partying and hanging around the wrong kinds of places which he may dislike.
Lifestyles like this may stop him from proposing to you. Looking before you
leap is an important key when going into a relationship.
Afraid
Some guys have a phobia to propose to a lady. Fear makes
some men ask questions like “what if she says No or what if my proposal affects
our friendship or won’t my proposal annoys her?” Once a guy is afraid of the
unfavorable outcome of his proposal, he may decide to keep the thought to
himself.
Priority
Going into a relationship may not be his present priority.
There is time for everything in life, time to sow, time to reap, time for
personal growth, time to court and time to marry. The time factor is important
in life. Moreover, a man’s attention will be where his mind is.
Family
One of the two families may be showing displeasure in your
friendship and this may affect his decision in proposing to you.
Note: It is important that you define your relationship to
avoid getting emotionally attached. When your friendship is defined you may
likely not get entangled emotionally.
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