Starting a conversation with a girl, especially one that you are interested in can be nerve-wracking, and saying the wrong thing can turn the girl off. To help you overcome this and get the girl of your dreams, we will teach you how to start a conversation with a girl in this article.
Some of the approaches I will discuss can be used when starting a conversation either online or on whatsapp. The rule of thumb remains the same, however, with some little twist. Even if the girl is your crush or someone you just want to be an acquaintance with, the steps remain the same.
How to Start a Conversation With a Girl
Below are the simplest ways to start a face-to-face conversation with a girl you are interested in.
· Approach her· Greet her warmly
· Compliment her
· Introduce yourself
· Share something you have in common
· Use a pick-up line
· Ask about her day
· Ask for her guidance
· Approach her
The first step to starting a conversation with a girl is to approach her. Once you take this step, everything becomes easier. Ensure that you make eye contact with her while approaching her, this will signal to her that you are approaching her.
It is important to not make her uncomfortable with your manner of approach, do not corner her or stand very close to her. Give her a little distance, sit or stand near her without making bodily contact.
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· Greet her warmly
After having approached her, the next logical thing to do is to greet her. A simple but polite "hello" or "hi" will go a long way. Make eye contact and smile while greeting her from a respectable distance. Ensure that your body language is open, relaxed, and confident.
This stage will show you if she is interested in talking to you or not. If she reacts positively continue to the next step, if not step back and go about your day.
Do not impose on a girl that is not interested in having a conversation with you.
I will also add this for the sake of those who want to start a conversation on whatsapp, the manner of your greeting will determine whether the girl will respond to your chat. Choice your words carefully.
· Compliment her
The next step to take after approaching and greeting her is complimenting her. You must not compliment her looks, you could compliment her shoes, bags, and accessories. You could also compliment her smile or her laugh.
Ensure that you are polite and sincere when complimenting
her to avoid looking like a creep. Keep your compliment short and sweet.
· Introduce yourself
The next polite thing to do is to introduce yourself. Don't start bragging, your first name and where you work (depending on where you met her) are good.
If she is still interested in the conversation, you can share why you approached her.
· Share something you have in common
Talking about something, you have in common with her, is a great way to start a conversation with a girl and maintain it. For instance, if you meet her in the park reading a book, you could start the conversation by saying "Nice read, I am a big fan of this author, is this your first read from them".
If you meet her at a party, you could ask her if she knows the host. Or ask her if she is a big fan of the brew of coffee she bought. If she is listening to music, you could ask her if she is a fan of the artist.
To make it easier to start a conversation with a girl, observe the environment you met her. You will find things in common to discuss.
· Use a pick-up line
Another way to break the ice and start a conversation with a girl is by using a pick-up line. It might sound outdated but when used correctly, it can work magic.
Ensure that your body language is relaxed and confident. If she smiles or laughs, you can continue your conversation. It could mean she is interested in what you have to say.
· Ask about her day
Another great way to start a conversation with a girl is to ask her about her day. A simple "How are you?" or "I hope you are having a nice day" will help you get her interested and talking.
If she gives, you a one-word answer, you could ask her if she did anything exciting or interesting that day and follow that up with more questions.
Be careful, so it won't look like you are interrogating her.
Be polite and sincere in your conversations with her. Let her feel that you are
truly interested.
· Ask for her guidance
Asking for her guidance or suggestion about something is a good way to start a conversation with a girl. You could ask her for directions, and feedback on the food or product you want to purchase.
Where you meet her, will determine what type of guidance you will require.
Note: It is important to be yourself when approaching a girl. Do not pretend to be who you are not, it may backfire.
Before you approach a girl, observe her. This will help you to get talking points.
You should also observe her body language when talking to her if she looks uncomfortable or unresponsive. Leave her alone. But, if she is receptive and genuinely interested in what you have to say, then continue.
Indeed, many men do not know how to start a conversation with a girl they like. Some try and fail thereby losing the opportunity to get the girl of their dreams. That is why we covered the easiest ways to start a conversation with a girl in this article.
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