Hard to understand is the nature of human beings, our mood isn’t static and
this is because our structural composition is highly complex and yet can be
handled if you pay attention to it. I will speak on one of them:
Love, sex, relationship
Remembering the pains and hurt of love can turn your happiness into sadness.
And most of the time the state of our feelings/emotion dictate the outcome of
sex, unfortunately, sex has been misused or abused in our society and we
no longer understand its functions again, therefore, sex has become:
A tool to suppress burden/fear
It’s been from the ancient times that sex has become a tool for lifting
burdens or fear in humans. In today’s society, a little stress in the male will
make him go for sex as an option to suppress the hunt inside him. And of
course, stress is part of tools introduced by socio-system, which is
the cause of emotional disorder in both males and females
. Note: Unless
you manage your daily activities very well stress will be inserted into your
emotional system and your sex life will go into misery. One of the bad
effects of socio-system in our society is bad sex life.
The system is full of
pressure and stress, a set of daily activities that tense human's system which
leads young men to masturbation (A sign of emotional disorder caused by
internal stress and pressure) and unfortunately socio-system is wired
with such. Some ladies believe sex can be used to tame a man because of fear of
losing him, so they give sex thinking the man will be with them forever. This
very act shows a gross misunderstanding of sex.
An exchange for hurt/pains
When confusion sets in sex become an alternative of healing wounds of the moment.
Never have I seen sex healing emotional wounds though can suppress it
and that’s why our society needs it constantly to maintain the hidden hurt and
pains in them.
If you don’t find a solution to the inner hurts and
pains in you, it just a matter of time you will buy into sex as an alternative option.
A hope of future
Of course, I have no doubt in the ability of sex in sealing the future of
two sincere lovers but well in their ignorance sex can play the role of
diminishing return of their feelings for each other. You started with all
sincerity but unknowingly reduce the future dream of your love towards each
other to mere night dream.
Note: One of the dangers of sex is its
ability to diminish your emotional feelings to mere clay that will soon turn to
dust.
Inner conflict that can’t be explain
These are categories of people who don’t know if they want to love or not
and in the midst of their decision larger percentage often fall into
painful love life.
A Relationship should be taken with the same
value as life and death very expensive to play with or joke with seeing how it
can render a living human useless even with wealth and satisfaction making life
frustrating towards it victims. How do you explain a relationship
suffering from sexual in-satisfaction? Or the various numbers of
females who see themselves as a sex toy? Huh
well am Joseph Sam,
coming out of the woods can make you see life differently if you care to feel
the pains of others.
Sweetness in love and relationship
May I tell you this, until you build a sound love life
(Note:
very few females have enjoyed true male world affection, the same with males
very few have really enjoyed the true sounds of love especially from female
world), relationship can be a disastrous journey you ever wish to experience.
No matter the conflict inside of you, please do find peace to suppress the
hurts and pains of love and what an advantage to have good friends that
understand the power of friendship in healing your wounds.
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